Staying Connected With Friends!

Staying connected with Friends!

Humans are social animals and from the time of birth, till the day we die, we continuously take part in the process of socialisation. But, with the COVID-19 pandemic and two years of working or studying from home, it has been rather stressful to maintain connections and keep the tradition of social gatherings alive. A lot of friends and family of mine have been complaining of having to transition from school to college without making new friends as they have to study online. The main reason behind this is the pandemic. Although, some students or undergraduates find it difficult to make friends or stay connected with the old ones, in a normal situation as well.

After graduation, people enter the continuous loop of studying and simultaneously working. It seems like a never-ending process and there is very little spare time for leisure activities such as going out with friends, reading, watching some movie, etc. All we tend to yield for at the end of a hectic day is sleep. This often leads to one feeling lonely and disconnected from friends. In such situations, it is vital to understand the importance of leisure activities without compromising on work or studies. Striking a balance between fun and work is the key to success in any situation. Of course, being aware of priorities and what stands more important is also a necessity. A meet with your closest friends after very long can fuel you for the entire week! Taking some time out from your busy schedule for friends and family will not only help you stay connected with them but will also make them feel special.

Adulting is not easy and we say it all the time. It comes with so many responsibilities and even greater expectations. In situations like these, when we become busy trying to make ends meet, we end up giving up on our social life. This is when thoughts like “I don’t have anyone to share my feelings with” arise. As humans, we require emotional support all the time. We yield for warmth, love and affection at all stages of our life. Finding a friend in your parents, pursuing some solid relationships, or even rising some old friends can help us sail through such situations. It is easier to say than to execute but true friends always stay and some amount of effort is required even to keep your social life going.

After graduation, a lot of friends move overseas or to different cities within the same country. It is a hard pill to digest but it is inevitable and preparing yourself for such situations is always of good help later. In this scenario, one must make it a point to catch up through video calls or phone calls to maintain the friendly bond.

We can make friends all our lives as everyone is looking for friends and confiders. It is not only “your” need but it is a human need!

Being amicable and kind are the two qualities that will help you throughout your lifetime.